ATMAT can help also those people who decides to have an assisted conception, you find in the previous article the key points that enhance the womb well being. But what makes me particularly proud about this method is the fact that you learn how to take care of your womb. Before being a mother you are a woman and it is such a precious gift to be a womb carrier that we need to celebrate! I have been asked from several moms to be to help them during all the process. And particularly I had been blessed with the cooperation of an enlightened obstetrician that I could work with. She explained me all the procedure and allowed me to be with her during all the steps. We did all the preparation beforehand, not only physical but also mental and spiritual, and when she finally went for the last check and the baby was there it has been something I will never forget.
The doctor was really surprised because given her age, quality of eggs and sperm, she gave her something like 20% possibility and she told me to prepare for repeating the process in the future. But we were confident that if it was meant to be it would be in one go. (Not to give false hope, this was the story though).
What made a difference? The preparation was all about self love and care, self acceptance and the connection with her womb, that was not just a nest but a special and important part of her. She was really taking care of it, she was daily doing something good for herself, herbal bathing, self care, meditation, and whenever something crossed her mind that was not pleasant she would call me to let it go. But we also have been working on the possibility of never have a child and to imagine a life without a kid. We made peace with the fact that maybe that was not her path and she was ok with it. So with deep trust and without attachment she could embrace her new adventure. I must say that her husband played a very important role, he would come every appointment to support her, he was asking me what to do to help the situation and he did wanders, he was there accepting what life was bringing them.
I really wish every woman that really want a child to have it, I know how painful can be, but do yourself a huge present: put yourself first, give yourself all the love you need, this will make your life better and if you love and care for yourself your child is going to gain so much from it!
This is a tiny space where I can share some of my thoughts and experiences, enjoy!